This one is tricky, as we don’t wish to offend, so here are the traditions for cultural reference.
Gift giving is a tradition that expresses respect and blessings for the couple, there are ceremonial offerings, like gold jewellery, tea and lacquerware that symbolise prosperity and harmony.
At the tea ceremony, the groom’s family present gifts of jewels, cakes, wines, fruits and seeding money for the couple. And so does the bride’s family, this will also be the time when bride’s close relatives offer gifts and dowries to the bride. These offerings will be publically announced in front of Bride’s ancestral altar and attending guests as a token of respect to the bride and the bride’s family.
At the celebration reception, guests will typically give red envelope – yes there is money inside. The amount can small or large, the closer the relatives the larger the amount.
We would say this, we don’t expect gifts and would rather accept your blessings that we might enjoy a long, healthy and happy marriage together.